Dating advice from men
Look at Miranda Kerr; [her] first husband is a "bad boy," [and her] second husband is a rich, nice, geeky guy.Wait to have sex until you have DTR'd (defined the relationship).Fact is, the person you end up with may not be in the package you expected him/her to be in, so give everyone a fair chance even if you don't immediately feel that spark! My number one piece of advice to singles in their 20s is to take dating seriously.
By waiting to have sex until you have objectively qualified this guy as a boyfriend for you, who has proven himself through consistent behavior and [is] committed to being with just you, you are saving yourself from a whole lot of heart break from boys you will become prematurely infatuated with. Don't wait for someone else to come along and make you happy.Or, even more surprising, you could meet someone so special and perfect for you, that even if you were sure you're not ready to get married, or not dating for marriage, you find yourself quickly changing your mind when you realized you met the best thing that ever happened to you.If you approach dating casually, you will never give anyone enough of a chance to know if they could be the one and will dismiss so many incredible people.Work on yourself and your own life, and wait for the person who adds to the happiness you already feel.When you are both in that place, you will not only be ready for a relationship, but it will be more likely to succeed.